During my time in Kyoto, I was able to participate in a local pottery studio for my CIP. They welcomed me even though I had no prior experience, and more than simply treating me with kindness, truly let me become a part of their family.
My teacher had a step-by-step plan for me to follow in order to advance in my pottery skills as a total beginner. In my few lessons there, I learned how to make a vase and a mug and designed them how I found fit. Not only did the lessons allow me to get a hang of the fundamentals, but I had total creative freedom and was supported by everyone around me to pursue anything that interested me that day. Although I started off shy and nervous, their warm nature made it easy for me to feel comfortable and eventually join in on their fun. Through the laughter and many jokes, I was able to not only better my intercultural competence, but learn from them how to live a better life.
To get the most of your experience, find ways you can connect with the people around you. If they mention something interesting, ask them about it. If you don’t understand their Japanese, be honest. While some CIPs don’t have much room for you to bond with the members, pottery made it easy because of the classroom’s nature: everyone sits around the same table with snacks and a drink, and speaks while they work. The more you speak, the closer you get, so make an effort to engage even if it scares you at first.